When we see people who we view as "successful" we want what they have. Instinctively, we want to know what they did to get there. What tactics did they use, what tools did they adopt, what strategies did they employ. We're looking in the wrong place. While these are important aspects of success, these are not the reasons for success. We don't see the process that person went through to get where they are. The mindset, the behaviors, the actions, the setbacks, and the process as a whole. The mindset and the process is the glue that holds it all together. It contains and helps the process take shape. This cannot be bought or taught. It must be experienced for each individual person. Focus on the glue. Focus on your process and allow yourself to be in it and learn from it.
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